Journalled on Sunday, 9th of April 2023 | Copacabana, Rio de Janeiro: 23 degrees, cloudy, rainy and shitty.
It is Easter Sunday, it is cold and rainy, and I woke up in half-dead mode.
Yesterday, I had two glasses of wine at a pizzeria near where I live and a bottle at home, half in the early afternoon and the other half when I arrived home after my walk.
Drinking is not for me anymore. I do not know whether it is because I am getting old, now fifty-six, or because I have lost the habit of drinking. Because both my body and mind are not used to either the side effects whilst drinking or the sequelae of the next day, or is it because I have been drinking since my late teens, so now probably my kidneys and liver are permanently shot?
Only now have I noticed the effects.
I am sure I don’t miss drinking beer. Even when I pass by two people enjoying a cold beer on a sweltering day in Rio, I do not feel tempted to drink one. However, when it comes to wine, it is different. I enjoy wine and appreciate the culture surrounding it, such as its diverse types, pairings, acidity levels, and so on; nevertheless, I am drinking less and less wine.
It is good; I can go through an entire weekend without drinking a glass or a bottle of wine. Weekdays are easy, as drinking doesn’t really fit into my routine.
The question is the weekend, and if it is cold, it is the most potent excuse to open a bottle, but as I said before, it is becoming less and less of a problem for me. If you don’t miss something as you did in the past, then that something is unimportant, or you no longer need it.
So, I slowly got up and got dressed for a workout. I slowly prepared my small rucksack and left my flat to go to the street. When I left my building, it was cold, with a chilly breeze and an intermittent drizzle. I had to take chocolate and Easter eggs to Jessica’s and Cibele’s flats in Leme.
Walking slowly, still half dead, I eventually arrived at Jessica’s building, where the porter reluctantly addressed me. Then, just crossing the side street next to Jessica’s building, I left the chocolate in the reception area of Cibele’s building. They live a stone’s throw from each other.
Cibele’s porter warmly greeted me, and we exchanged Easter pleasantries. However, Jessica’s porter seemed arrogant and reluctant when I requested him to deliver chocolates to my daughter.
This is something that I have seen many times here in Brazil, where the porter of a residential building shows a blatant prejudice against foreigners, more commonly known as gringos.
I am not sure if it is prejudiced to think that all foreigners look down on Brazilians or porters as being of a lower class, and that we are arrogant idiots. Or do porters, at least some of them, have an inferiority complex, so it is worse when they meet a foreigner?
I do not know; it is neither my problem nor my fault. I try to treat everyone with the utmost respect, and if people treat me kindly, I naturally return that kindness.
Over the long time I have lived in Brazil, many people have said that I am lucky to live here because Brazilians welcome foreigners with open arms. The culture is very welcoming to foreigners; in some ways, that is true, but in many cases, an anti-gringo underworld despises foreigners and what they represent.
Obviously, I’m speaking in general terms, but I can often feel it and cut it like a knife in the air. Even more interesting is that if a foreigner understands and speaks Portuguese, especially like a native, it can be very annoying, disturbing and even inconvenient for some Brazilians in some situations.
Again, I am saying this in a minority of cases, but it does exist.
After dropping off the Easter chocolates, I walked to the end of Leme, where some dog owners I knew were there. I again wished everyone a happy Easter and returned home as the drizzle turned into rain.
At home, I showered and changed to go out again to deliver chocolates to Yasmin and Nalva. I hadn’t bought Easter eggs this year; I thought even a tiny, simple egg was too expensive.
Instead, I bought small boxes of chocolates, M+Ms, large chocolate bars, etc.- an assortment of chocolates at more realistic prices. I took the bus to Botafogo, gave Yasmin and Nalva their chocolates, stayed with them for about an hour and then came home.
It was still cold and drizzly, so I decided to read my book, study some more e-commerce topics online, and then get ready for bed.
A pleasant long weekend during the Easter period, nothing too exceptional, as in travelling to a special place, etc., but good.
In bed by 9 p.m.
Thank you.
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Richard
